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You Matter, Your Story Matters - Thais Nye Derich

01/21/2021

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You Matter, Your Story Matters
Thais Nye Derich

 

This episode was sponsored by:
Empowering fearless Birth
We are a 501 3c Non-Profit. Our aim is to prevent and heal birth trauma through education. Women need to understand their options and rights in childbirth so that they can have a safe and healthy birth.

 

Today we talk with Thais Derich, award-winning author of Second Chance: A Mother's Quest For a Natural Birth After a Cesarean. Thais is a Master of Fine Arts and Merit Scholar at the California College of the Arts. Her work is published in a number of magazines and journals, and she is a frequent public speaker, and uses her experience with a successful VBAC to educate others on how to recognize their own birthing options. (www.ThaisDerich.com)

Thais talks about her journey to starting a family with her husband, and the birth of her first child that ended in her being pressured into an unnecessary Cesarian Section which left her feeling powerless and traumatized. We clarify that C-Sections are a life-saving procedure and that birth is birth no matter how it happens, but that consent is the key to a non-traumatic birth.

We then talk about how Thais became determined to have her second birth be a VBAC. We discuss her difficulty in finding a practitioner who would take her on, and how misinformation about VBAC can color the willingness of practitioners to take on VBAC patients. We talk about Thais' decision to have a home birth and finding a Midwife who was experienced with VBAC to safely guide the process.

Thais talks about the birth of her second son and the healing work she did during her labor to recover from the trauma of the first, and the triumphant feeling of her accomplishment. We talk about the research that goes into planning for a VBAC and the importance of finding a provider that is enthusiastic about the mother's choices and willing to carry them out without overruling her.

We compare the risks of an at-home VBAC and an in-hospital C-section, and how statistics show that VBACs are overwhelmingly successful. We talk about Thais' use of hypnotherapy to work through the trauma of her first birth, and the support she received from her local birth community during her second pregnancy.

Finally, Thais gives her advice to people who are being denied a VBAC and tells them to "keep shopping" until they can find a provider that is willing to help them have the birth experience that they want. We talk about how COVID has made for greater encouragement toward home birth.

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Hospital birth has long been considered the safest and most comfortable way to deliver a baby by the popular consciousness. Though it's true that a lot of effort goes into making hospital birth as safe as possible, there can often be a cascade of interventions that can sometimes lead to a mother feeling as though she has lost some of her agency about her birth experience.

Thais and Sarah talk about Thais' arduous but inspiringly successful journey toward VBAC, as well as the heavy impact of birth trauma, and the ways mothers can reclaim their bodies after traumatic births to empower themselves for the future.

Thais is the author of Second Chance: A Mother's Quest for a Natural Birth After a Cesarian. She's a mother of two and freelance writing coach and editor. Her work is featured in the award-winning anthology "She's Got This", and she freelances as a writing coach, editor, and speaker.

 

This episode was sponsored by:
Empowering fearless Birth
We are a 501 3c Non-Profit. Our aim is to prevent and heal birth trauma through education. Women need to understand their options and rights in childbirth so that they can have a safe and healthy birth.