5 things to ask your provider:
•Do you trust me? (No = 🚩)
•Do you trust birth? (No = 🚩)
•Do you believe in informed consent? (No = 🚩 and have them explain it to you)
•Are you ok with me saying no? (No = 🚩and discuss specific scenarios)
•Will you attend my birth? (No = 🚩and this is shockingly common.)
What questions would you add?